Monday, June 15, 2009

RELATIONSHIPS

Having a relationship these past six months has brought about a lot of realisations for me. Not just emotions I've never felt, but experiences I'll never forget. Yeah you can have a relationship with someone but there is different levels of emotional connection as well as physical.

I like to catagorise them, so these are the types I believe exist:
  • the "girlfriend-boyfriend title" sort where you're just in it because you like to tell people you have a partner but never really spend time together
  • the "high school hook up" sort where you are just going out for the physical rewards and talk a little bit.
  • the "guardian angel" sort where you think that your partner is an angel in your eyes and you will love them to death and call them super cute names and write each other peoms.
  • and finally there is the "best friends" sort, where you and your partner are at that stage where you are completely comfortable with each other, you can talk about anything and not hold back, you can just hang and not have to say a word and felt like you've spent your time together perfectly, where you have way too many personal jokes to keep track of, and where you are both what I call in love. The realisation that you are just too compatible and you could spend everyday together and never feel sick of that person.
These are just some of the stereotypical ones I've come to see and experience. You might fit in to all of them, maybe even none but whatever you feel that love is, follow it.

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